Snow Songs

First it’s a day in third grade, standing at the window of the classroom with my best friend, each of us begging the high crisp orange-tinted sky to deliver us, to deliver the snow. Praying, making up songs, chanting. Some kind of communion, a ritual in childspeak. Promising God we’ll stop using curse words. And afterwards the electric thrill when the snow actually comes. Celebrating in strange waves, barely believing it actually came. Curse words swiftly back in the lexicon.

Then it’s years later, walking through the snow with my father from his house to a nearby diner, and the cheap, washed-out small town feeling in that place, with those little square hamburgers, the steam and the yellow decor. Buried in the white, a rest stop between dead ends, nowhere on anybody’s map. But people keep trudging in. Who are these people? 

Weeks later, arguing with my father and demanding to be let out of the car so I can trudge through the snow back home, bitterness and confusion coursing through me. Locking myself in my room and listening to Quadrophenia, the sound reverberating, occupying the space where my sense of balance ought to be. Looking out at the endless pure white everywhere and hating it for how trapped it made me feel. 

Then it’s early in high school, looking out the same window at different snow, lights out, night, listening to Sandinista! by The Clash, but only side five, feeling like nobody else had probably ever heard that particular stretch of music before. Buried deep at the end of the side there’s “The Street Parade”, a three-minute fragment that sounds like a sketchy radio transmission from your subconscious - a steady, barely-heard heartbeat, faint, fading in and out. Getting lost in the drift of that distant ghost of a song, with all its impossible yearning and missed connections. Waiting for phone calls, feeling like you’re about to burst. Then the disappearing act, not giving in but persevering. That fractured, false start guitar pattern, over here, then somewhere else. That song and the sense of possibilities it kicks up. The white landscape gleaming under the moon, seeming to contain those possibilities. What’s possible? Maybe whatever you want, maybe a fraction of it. Maybe none! That seems pretty pessimistic, though. I guess we’ll find out eventually, but really, as far as possibilities go I’m really just hoping at that point in life for two things: A) That someone will have sex with me soon, and B) that the snow will all melt so we can get the baseball season started. 

Then a couple years later a connection is made. Walking through the snow with my girlfriend from her house to the park, hiding out together in the base of the tornado slide, hoping that moment would last, maybe into some kind of forever, if that’s a thing that exists. Is it? 

Maybe we’re still there. 

We probably want out by now.